Good singing, dancing and stories of Hope...
With Speakers: Mareia Paige, Taitianna Boyd and special guest, Felicia
Sledge, a victim advocate of Peaceful Paths Domestic Abuse Network, Inc.
A Message of Healing From, Youth Pastor McArthur Shelton II
Following by a Baptismal Service.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) evolved from the "Day of Unity"
held in October 1981 and conceived by the National Coalition Against
Domestic Violence. The intent was to connect advocates across the nation
who were working to end violence against women and their children. The Day
of Unity soon became an entire week devoted to a range of activities
conducted at the local, state, and national level. The activities conducted
were as varied and diverse as the program sponsors but had common themes:
Mourning those who have died because of domestic violence
Celebrating those who have survived
Connecting those who work to end violence
These three themes remain a key focus of DVAM events today. In October
1987, the first Domestic Violence Awareness Month was observed. That same
year marks the initiation of the first national domestic violence toll-free
hotline. In 1989, the U.S. Congress passed Public Law 101-112 designating
October of that year as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Such
legislation has passed every year since with NCADV providing key leadership
in this effort. Each year, the Day of Unity is celebrated the first Monday
of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
—Adapted from the 1996 Domestic Violence Awareness Month Resource Manual of
the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
Stop the Violence/Back to School Rally set for August 9th
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To the Editor in Chief-
I write this letter this morning with a challenged heart, knowing that there are 20 children who will never open their Holiday gifts, never see their stockings hanging over the fireplace and never anticipate Santa coming to their house. My question is what can we do to prevent this from happening? This is the question that is plaguing the minds of many across our Nation. As the president of People Against Violence Enterprises, Inc., (PAVE), I want to challenge us to pray more. The Bible suggests, that we pray without ceasing. (I Thessalonians 5:17) While I am not sure of the statistics, it is evident that incidents such as this are occurring more since prayer has been taken out of schools. However, what can we do now? Well, prayers can reach where we cannot. If you believe in the power of prayer, then pray. The Bible says that the prayers of a righteous man of availeth much. (James 5:16) I believe that prayer makes a difference, changes the atmosphere and gives us all hope.
What else can we do? We can help lobby for governmental funding to be spent more on things that help prevent these horrible incidents. For example, putting more emphasis on violence prevention through education and rallies, supporting Mental Health services, encouraging the use of gun locks, tightening the reins on who can buy weapons through a more extensive and diligent qualifying process, teaching conflict resolution, and ensuring that each of our schools are properly secured with onsite presence of Law Enforcement.
Here in our fair city of Gainesville, we have been fortunate to not have had a major incident. In 2000, several school shootings occurred in the US including the tragedy at Columbine. In response to the disturbing trends, I asked the Lord what I could do to prevent anything like this from happening. In response, I launched the first Stop the Violence Rally under the auspice of PAVE. Meridian Behavioral Healthcare immediately partnered with PAVE, and then other entities jumped on board, like the Office of the State Attorney, the City of Gainesville, Alachua County, Gainesville Police Department (GPD), Alachua County Sheriff, Black on Black Crime Task Force, WTMG Magic 101.3 FM, WCJB TV 20 and the Gainesville Sun. Since then, more entities have joined the efforts, like Alachua County Public Schools, Leadership Gainesville, and many other partners.
Cohesiveness is alive in our community. I had the pleasure of attending a COPS conference on last year with GPD and the theme was “Collaboration…Working Together”. They had many representatives from different cities around the US sharing how they are working together to dispel the increase in violent crimes in their areas. What I realized was that a lot of the cities were just starting to do it, not because there is a definite attribute to being unified, but because of limited financial resources. However, I am glad that other cities just as Gainesville are working cohesively to prevent violence.
Even with all of our efforts, I can truly say that we still have strides to go in North Central Florida, but I am proud of our entities deciding to come together 14 years ago even when the economy was much better, because they saw the vision God had place in my heart and recognized and reacted to the need.
In closing, I will personally continue to rally for peace and justice in our area and abroad but I cannot do it alone. I want to encourage everyone to think of the 26 innocent victims of the Connecticut school shooting which includes 20 Kindergarten and first grade babies who will never open their Holiday gifts, never see their stockings hanging over the fireplace and never anticipate Santa coming to their house, to get involved in some way that will safeguard the futures of our innocent children and heroic school staff. In the meantime, take time out to hug, kiss and pray over your babies and other loved ones each day. Shalom.